10 ways to became mature

10 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗱

1. 𝗦𝗘𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗚𝗢𝗔𝗟𝗦, 𝗕𝗨𝗧 𝗗𝗢𝗡’𝗧 𝗕𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗨𝗥𝗘𝗗

Rather than spending time on things that don’t make you grow, know yourself and what you want to become. Invest your energy on working to reach your goals but don’t feel pressured and allow yourself to experience failures.

2. 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗡 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗥𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘

Growing up, you may have been dependent on your parents, siblings, friends, and other people around you, and they might undeniably made your life easier. But in reality, not everyone can be there for someone forever. Each of us deals with our own battles, and you have to learn how to overcome them alone. It will make you stronger and more prepared to a much difficult trail.

3. 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗡 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗢𝗟

Learn to control your emotions, actions, and temper. Learn to reflect, evaluate, and analyze the ends before it begins. Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

4. 𝗗𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗟𝗢𝗣 𝗔𝗖𝗖𝗘𝗣𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘

Understand that you can never control everything. When you face a loved one’s death, rejection, failure, heartbreak, etc., learn to quickly move forward, and the first step to that is acceptance.

5. 𝗕𝗘 𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗗, 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗡 𝗙𝗥𝗢𝗠 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗜𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚

The most common reason for unhappiness is not learning to be contented. Count what you have and work for what you don’t have; complaining won’t make a thing.

6. 𝗤𝗨𝗜𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗘𝗡𝗩𝗜𝗢𝗨𝗦

Find joy in other people’s success while working on yours. Other people's success will never threaten yours. Other people's blessings will never take away yours. 

7. 𝗔𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗗 𝗡𝗘𝗚𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗩𝗘𝗦

Surround yourself with positive people. Condition your mind with positive thoughts. Engage yourself in a positive environment, and eliminate anything that doesn't contribute a positive effect.

8. 𝗕𝗨𝗜𝗟𝗗 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗙𝗜𝗗𝗘𝗡𝗖𝗘

Accept and love yourself; it is the first step to build confidence. Go out of your comfort zone. You will never know where your confidence will take you.

9. 𝗕𝗘 𝗢𝗣𝗘𝗡-𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗗𝗘𝗗

Accept constructive criticisms as they will help you grow. Be open to suggestions, opinions, and changes. An open-minded person accepts his mistakes, makes improvements, and therefore is more likely to achieve success.

10. 𝗕𝗘 𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗗

The world might be cruel but when you start sharing kindness, sooner it will become a better place to live. Be kind to yourself and to everyone.

Fallow Madu Kariyawasam